I have been in this same position before too, October 2016 to be exact! That was the date I actually posted my first official blog article. It seems like so long ago but it has only been 10 months!

I had started in March 2016 just by ‘Insta blogging’ (uploading product and self photos with little captions). The ultimate goal was to start a blog eventually however I had no idea where to even start or what to write about nor the journey it was about to take me on.

I opted on writing this blog post because I have now found myself in a position helping others to start their blogging journey too. I have decided to tackle some of the most common statements and questions I have been asked.


  1. “You need to pick a topic and stick to it”. Don’t worry, I heard this plenty of times too and I couldn’t disagree more. If I had let this statement linger in my mind I probably would have never started my blog in the first place. The fact is, it most likely will change because that’s who we are as a humans. We change over the days, months and years and that is life. Blogging shouldn’t be seen as just a writing platform because it’s so much grater than that. Blogging is a door that you use to let people into your life. Whether it’s surface level or a little deeper, either way you are sharing some part of you as a person to anyone who jumps on and reads it. Life is a journey and so is your blog. Take people on it, don’t be afraid to change it. Embrace the situations life throws at you and SHARE IT!
  2. Stop waiting for the PERFECT blog before you launch it! I find so many (including myself) wait for the perfect layout, topics, photos etc before we even commit to launching our blog in the first place. It will never be perfect if that is what you are waiting for, there is no such thing as perfect! FACT: When I first launched mine, my photos were taken on my iPhone, poorly edited, no subscribers, no idea what I was writing about. I just winged it, but the fact that I started and because I started, it grew to what it has become today. If I kept waiting for the perfect blog it may have never been launched. Just do it, who cares. Write your little heart out. Write whatever comes to mind, write about what interests you! Just be you throughout this journey and don’t let the social media World try and shape you into someone you’re not. Just because someone else is blogging about a topic doesn’t mean you have to as well!
  3. Ignore those who discourage you. There will always be those who discourage you. Most of the time, you might find it could be people who are the closest to you! I certainly heard some snarly remarks when I first started out with my 50 followers and no blog subscribers. I am a huge supporter of people reaching for their goals and putting themselves out there. It’s not easy because the reality of social media is you are opening yourself up to the World to judge you. That’s not an easy thing to do and when people discourage you, it makes you think twice. I still get discouraging remarks and I won’t lie, it does get me down on occasions. Because this is something that is so close to my heart, sharing is my love and my passion and when people rain on my parade, it hurts. But I always pick myself back up and so should you! Remind yourself WHY you are here and WHY you are doing this. All you can do is ignore the comments as much as possible and strive to prove them wrong!
  4. Be yourself throughout the journey! Blogging is about being YOU. It’s about sharing what YOU love, your passions, your goals and your interests. Don’t ever try and hide away your true self because you think that being you won’t make you successful! Don’t compare yourself to other bloggers. EVER. If we try and compare ourselves we will pick apart our flaws and think we aren’t good enough to expose to the World. We are all good enough in our own way.To someone, your interests, stories and passions are unique and interesting. You will always be interesting to someone else so don’t for a moment think you aren’t. Invite them into your World, open up your heart, mind and soul and share what it is that you want to share. As humans, we learn from each others knowledge. We better ourselves from other peoples experiences and we should be proud of what we have to share! So be yourself utterly and completely and be proud of what and who you are today.
  5. Enjoy the ride, don’t rush it! Your time will come. If you have been following me for a while, then you would have heard me say this before. Don’t rush your journey, if you try and rush it and not let it unfold organically, is it really even your true journey? Or is it a journey you are forcibly creating for yourself? We are so anxious in catching up to everyone else around us that we never slow down and let life pan out how it should. When we don’t let it grow organically are we truly every pleased with the way it has panned out? Blogging is just like life. Let your blog grow the way it’s meant to. Even if it takes you 2-5 years to grow it, does it really matter? Do it because you love it and if you truly love it, it will show and your time will come.







11 Comments on Have you ever thought about launching a blogging career? Here is everything you need to know to start!

  1. Katie
    August 13, 2017 at 12:43 am (4 months ago)

    I love this so much! I also started blogging without any subscribers. I just did it! And I also think it should be about life unfolding naturally. Thanks for keeping it real.

    • Stephanie Barreca
      August 13, 2017 at 8:20 am (4 months ago)

      That’s where we all start! Best journey ever! Yup, let it unfold organically and it will fall into place exactly how is it supposed to be!

  2. Jen
    August 13, 2017 at 2:21 am (4 months ago)

    This is the best advice Stephanie! Thanks for sharing this! As someone who just started blogging, I can tell you that I’ve asked myself all of these things. Your thoughts and advice are so helpful and encouraging! ❤️

    • Stephanie Barreca
      August 13, 2017 at 8:21 am (4 months ago)

      Thanks Jen! So pleased you enjoyed it! We all ask these questions in the beginning, its natural! They are almost the most common questions and statements I hear from EVERYONE when we touch on this subject. Glad you could take something away from it!

  3. Milly
    August 13, 2017 at 7:48 am (4 months ago)

    I definitely needed to hear this! Like I need to be myself and face the reality! I have learned after reading this that things take time to build up, but need to grow first. Sometimes it’s tough though.

    • Stephanie Barreca
      August 13, 2017 at 8:23 am (4 months ago)

      Yes! Be yourself, you always should! If you are struggling to do that, ask yourself why? We only have one life on this planet, why try live it through someone elses eyes and quite frankly, why do you care?! Ask yourself is it really worth caring about what other people think!

      So happy you loved the article, thanks Milly!

  4. Carly zimbone
    August 13, 2017 at 10:46 am (4 months ago)

    Love this! Enjoying the journey and process is so vital to consistent success.

  5. Sarah Surman
    August 13, 2017 at 1:05 pm (4 months ago)

    Probably my favourite photos of you YET!! Absolutely love them lovely!! Some of the best advice on blogging from one of the best bloggers…(well in my opinion). Great post babe. xoxo

  6. Enrique
    August 30, 2017 at 9:39 pm (3 months ago)

    Thank you for sharing!

  7. mukta panwar
    September 21, 2017 at 3:07 am (3 months ago)

    I have lots of thing to share with people but I never try to write all that things. Now I am ready to launch my own blog without thinking any other person who discourages me..You are so much amazing person with a beautiful soul..I am from India and I love you always..India loves you and I will recommend your blog to all my friends …Love from India..

    • Stephanie Barreca
      September 21, 2017 at 4:10 am (3 months ago)

      It is my dream to go to India!!! Maybe one day! I am so happy you feel inspired by this post to tell your story! A blog is such a wonderful way to start. You will help teach others so much from your experiences! I can’t wait to see your blog when it launches, send me the link! I will love to check it out! x


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